Planning a wedding for it to come out perfect may take up to a year - choosing the most beautiful synagogue or church, following a diet so that the dress looks amazing on the bride, choosing the most exquisite meal, music, flowers and five hundred things more is a real challenge.
But knowing how marriage will be in the first week is a mystery that nobody can know, especially those who are still to unite their lives with another person. In addition to planning the party that will last a few hours - but has been months´ work, it is also important to talk about planning a shared future, something that probably wasn´t talked about during the engagement, since marriage is much more than a party, it is expected to last a whole lifetime.
Therefore, marriage is more than the preparation, a dress, it’s a sentimental and emotional preparation to develop a relationship. And the most important thing to be able to perform it, is COMMUNICATION between partners, that’s the most powerful weapon for any marriage! This is my little piece of advice!!
Please leave your comments below and let us all know what you think!!
Can you think of any other situation which asks for as much commitment?
How does the wedding day compare to other special days in our lives?
Jackie
hi everybody!!!.. how are you?? a long time i don't see you guys!!miss youu!!!! tell me something new please!!
ReplyDeleteHey Jackie!
ReplyDeleteI just wanted to say that, yes, I definitely think that your wedding day is so special and important, and that I can only imagine the amount of work that goes into making it the most perfect day. I´m sure that you thoroughly enjoyed yours back in May, and that you´d planned every minute detail down to perfection!
Well done and good luck in your new life. I hope you´re enjoying every minute!
See you soon,
Steve
Having children could demand much more committment for women as the strong relationship between mother-baby during first months and the great tendency to leave out their spouses. However, some husbands are more involve nowdays in this issues and this basically depend on women.
ReplyDeleteNowadays, the importance of the wedding, I believe, depends on the environment that you were born. The context of getting married with the perfect white dress, the handsome groom, the party, etc...has been changing a lot. WHY? because people think it`s not necessary to "show" the world their love.
ReplyDeleteNevertheless, wedding is not like a party, it`s a celebration, it`s the moment the bride and the groom have to show others how much they love each other. That`s why maybe the girl is more enthustiastic about all the preparation and make everything perfect.
This, for sure, will demand effort and time, specially for the woman who is, in general, the one in charge of the detalis.
I think that the feeling of getting married has changed through time, but the meanings should have stayed the same.
ReplyDeleteFor some people the wedding day is part of their dreams and goals, and for others is not an important or wanted thing. Every body is diferent and wishes diferent things, and (following the roul)diferent wedding days. In my view, these depends in a high percentage of the family context, but not the hole desicion. In my case, my mother dreamed of her wedding day, and I don't.
I admire those women who plan and deside every detail so their special day turns out the way they have dreamed. Some times the grome takes part , some times they don't, and other they just don't let him.